Saturday, September 27, 2008

Relationship

 

Today I want to tell about a relationship, and how to improve our relationship with others. Being a human, Social Animal, we always seek for  good relationship with Others,   whether it will be Personal or Professional. Good relationship means not goodie-goodie relationship but it should be functional, objective, mutual respect ( Professional) and dominate and mutual respect ( Personal).  I read in One book titled “Sneh nu Zarnu”   by Dr. Jitendra Adhiya (It is Gujarati book, we can translate it in English as a “Stream Of Love”) that In this world we have to maintain many relationship with Others Like, Mother, Father, wife, Siblings, Friends, Subordinates, superiors, customers,…etc.

 

 

Trust and love are two base of   any relationship and we are maintaining   account

Of   trust and love like Bank Account with each person with whom we communicates. As you all know about bank Account, there are two type of transaction 1.Deposit (Credit) and 2.Withdrawal (Debit). We have to deposit trust and love in their account to maintain healthy relationship with them. But the question is how can we deposit trust in their account?

 

 

We can deposit trust in their account by our behavious, speech and thoughts.

 

We shan’t take our word lightly means we should not break our promises, b’cos if we break promise means we lose credibility, When we lose credibility, we break the bond of trust. And breaking the bond of trust ultimately leads to a string of broken relationships.

We should talk smoothly and politely with others and always greet them with smiling face b’cos according to Mother Teresa “Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing”. We should clarify all our expectation with

Others b’cos when we commit with one relation we expect something, if we can express our expectations clearly, others can try to fulfill our expectations and inversely, we can also fulfill others expectation if we know its.

 

 

In this world I have seen that we can’t endure people and we too can’t live without people, this is the true reality of life. So According to me its all up to our relationship with others, if we have good relationship with world around us, life is better than heaven.

 

Thanks.

1 comment:

Shilpa said...

Were do i find book by Dr Jitendra Adhiya on memmory
Is it available online?